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Vet du inte hur du ska få igång en konversation? As a rule, leave the negatives out. However, we can help you with something perhaps equally important: what types of things should you try NOT to say when describing yourself honestly and enticingly.
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Posting a photo will get you more clicks on your profile, but the text that goes along with it is just as important. What you reveal about yourself on your profile in your section is crucial for enticing or turning away potential mates. Are you saying the right thing? It is widely accepted that there are two things you have to be ready to do if you are going to go online looking for your soul mate, or even just a date: Post a photo of yourself, and describe who you are. Each of these can be daunting, for many reasons. Primary among them, in my view, is that both tasks have multiple and competitive goals. On hand, you want to portray yourself in the most attractive manner possible. After all, by definition, you are trying to attract someone. On the other hand, if you are like most people, you also want to represent yourself honestly. Although stories both true and mythical abound about the lack of honesty among dating profiles and online daters, I can personally attest, based on my own reading of some tens of thousands of profiles and my contact with several thousand married couples who have met using such profiles, that people are for the most part honest to a fault in their profiles. Now, acquiring a photo of yourself that is both a the most attractive and b the most honest representation of what you look like goes far beyond the scope of mere science. The science of human attraction would suggest that you want to find a photo that gives you as young and symmetrical an appearance as possible if you are a woman bilateral symmetry being an indicator of health and fertility that we are evolutionarily predisposed to seek in a mate , and as wealthy and symmetrical as possible along with genotype dominant, i. So we will you to your own devices and conscience with regards to your photos, and hope that things work out for the best. Similarly, we cannot hope to tell you what it is that honestly makes you who you are without seeing your answers to a couple hundred questions that we may have already asked you to answer. However, we can help you with something perhaps equally important: what types of things should you try NOT to say when describing yourself honestly and enticingly. Yes, science is ready to weigh in, if not heavily, at least helpfully, we hope, on the subject of what types of things seem to be dampers when it comes to eliciting communication via an online profile. The list is perhaps surprisingly brief. So, gentlemen, if you want to make the least amount of effort that is most likely to increase your profile appeal, reread it for spelling. Thing 2 Not to Say: Most of the Details Your profile is your first impression. This means it represents you saying hello to a total stranger. Your profile is the cover of your book. You want it to interest a potential reader without giving all the plot points away. Your profile is even a bit like a resume. You want it to make the reader think that you are capable and qualified without thinking that you are self-aggrandizing or reaching for straws. Where does the science come in here? Thing 3 Not to Say: What you Hate Keeping with the big-picture theme we started in Thing 2, the emotional tone of your profile is very important. People are turned off by negativity and judgmental attitudes. If you like to rant about what you hate about politics, or people with pets, or cell phones in elevators, your profile is NOT the place to do it. As a rule, leave the negatives out. Thing 4 Not to Say: about Family or Work This may seem a bit redundant with Thing 2, but it is notable that too much discussion of your current family or job responsibilities may make it difficult for people who want to connect with you as an individual. There needs to be a clear space for something new to enter your life. Although the number of words relates only a relatively small degree to how likely you are to be invited to communicate or have an invitation responded to about 1% of the total variability in the number of invitations to communicate among eHarmony users , it is still the case that about twice as many people will invite others with around 100 words in their profiles as will communicate with those with only 10 words in their profiles.
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